Don’t pass the Buck!

Life is beautiful enjoy it; don’t make it hell by complaining about everything. Stop complaining and start living! Complaining and dissatisfaction in any situation is a result of negative thinking. A habitual complainer finds fault in everything and everyone, be it a spouse, a boss, parents, children, the climate, their own life…We find it easy to complain to cover our inabilities and make someone else responsible for that.

All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about..

My friend always complained about her husband not helping with household activities or caring for their needs, though he was honestly trying his best. She had fallen into that habit of criticizing him and never came back out of it. To avoid unpleasant interactions, her husband started coming home late and stopped sharing his problems with her. Guess where they ended up after that?

For a happy, peaceful and adorable life, turn off the negative mode in your brain and replace it with love and praise.Everyone likes appreciation instead of criticism. Complaining behavior leads to wastage of all your vital energy. When you learn to complain less you will conserve energy.

Don’t justify yourself to be right always. Stop blaming others for your failures. What is right from your view point may be wrong from another’s. Nothing is “right” or “wrong” in this world. Liberate yourself from finding faults in everything and you will be blessed with peace and love…Instead of complaining that the rose is full of thorns, be happy that the thorn bush has roses!!!!

As you lessen the habit of complaining, you will find yourself leading a more confident lifestyle. Stop complaining about things beyond your control. Move forward; take responsibility with self-assurance and confidence….

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