Have you noticed that your life doesn’t always turn out the way you want? You don’t get what you want. Due to which, you try to figure everything out. Why did this happen? Why did they do that? What’s the reason for this? And come up with a dozen of possible scenarios in your head, stretching your brain for answers that you will never have. When things happen the way you have never predicted, you will always be frustrated and resistant to what is going on and when you put up resistance, you will get yourself stuck in life which ensures you can’t move forward in a positive way.
Life can be hard when you are full of expectations and keep coming face to face with failures, breakups, deaths, and all those other situations that throw a twist in your plans. When you keep getting disappointed, it can be hard to go with the flow, even if it’s the very thing you want to do to feel better. After all, letting go should help you avoid all the pain, right? Well going with the flow and letting go are two different things. Some people believe, if you go with the flow does that mean you have no power to create the life you want? Or letting other people make choices for you. Absolutely not! It’s about being alive, thinking for yourself, making choices, and living your best life as well as you can. Letting go means shutting your eyes to what’s happening around and be ignorant to what’s actually going on in life.
If you are having a hard time achieving your goals, then you may need to work on going with the flow. There will be failures and obstacles in the way of any goal. You have to accept the failure or obstacle has happened. You have to face the reality of it and based on that reality, you have to make choices moving forward. If you are not sure of what to do next, go with the flow. Keep your intentions in mind, and allow yourself to bend and move with the flow of what is happening, or what the universe is throwing in your path, so that you can keep moving towards your goals.
Sometimes life happens. Not everything always goes the way we planned..When life doesn’t go your way, look at what it’s trying to tell you. It means life is taking you in the right direction. Its life showing you where you need to grow and what you need to release, to become the person you are meant to be. You are on a journey. You will always keep growing, evolving, falling flat on your face, and learning.
There are times when I feel like I want to give up. I feel like the universe is against me. I just want to leave everything. I dream about the freedom I would have. But then I remember that I am doing what I’m doing because I’ve chosen this. I am living my passion. That doesn’t mean it’s always easy. Life will constantly throw new problems at you. This is good. It’s exciting. If it didn’t happen, you would stop growing and life would become boring. If you want to live a happy life, you have to be okay with being unhappy. Life goes up and down. You experience joy, and you experience pain. This is life and this is okay. You don’t need to hold on so tight..
Life isn’t a math formula. Sometimes things don’t always add up. Not everything fits perfectly together. There isn’t always an answer. Life is for living, not figuring things out. We will never know why certain things happen, but just that they do. We need to take things for what they are.